Married forty years; widowed three months, I went online, on the night of what would have been 'our' 41st wedding anniversay….searching for companionship….”Friendship First” was the specification,from 'there,' whatever! The first and only “picture and profile” to appear when my 'mouse' clicked into Yahoo Personals “local males in Charleston, S.C.” was a man with the nickname of “Wolf;” a gorgeous long blond-haired blue-eyed hunk-of-a-man twenty-four years my junior.
“Wolf” and I Im-ed for two hours, the entire time professing great interest in our meeting. I was hesitant; caught-up in the 'age thing;' feeling 'strange'to do-so. “Wolf” assured me NOT to concern myself with such nonsense;he was 'fine with it,' thus proceeding to IM me 'personal references,' proving he was ALL he said he was and MORE! he WAS/IS an 'o.k. guy.' Living only two miles apart, we agreed to meet mid-way for breakfast.To say there was “mutual chemistry” there would be putting it mildly, sary as it was, there was definitly MORE than just “physical attraction!”
As the days, weeks months passed, our “one on one” relationship blossomed forth into a close, loving one, we having discovered we had MUCH in common than ever imaginable. Enjoying the SAME OLD movies; caring for the same actors; listening attenativly to our favorite 'oldies' of the 70's; experiencing a great passion for various gourmet foods and being spontaneous with week-end, “spur-of-the-moment” getaways.It was totally 'mind-boggling; a MATCH made in heaven!
At the time of our first get-together, I thought of “Wolf” as a man I could truly care for. I was NOT looking upon him as a son, I had/have two, just about a year or two older than he; “Wolf” was/is NOT looking for a “mom,” his lives a mile from my/our apartment; I have NEVER, nor do I NOW financially support him, he is very generous towards me and my wants and needs; he's an excellent provider, though MOST of all a warm, loving, compassionate man whom I absolutely love,idolize,admire and adore!
Against my four children's wishes (they ALL attended the same high school,at the same time hence the “objection”) “Wolf” and I married sixteen months to the day of our first meeting. NEVER in OUR ENTIRE lives has either one of us EVER been HAPPIER
